Gentle Mac & Cheese
By Robin Tasker · Serves 4 · 30 min
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SalmonSardinesCanned tunaA creamy, comforting mac and cheese built on our onion- and garlic-free stock and lower-lactose hard cheeses, with soft veg melted through. Gentle on your pouch — and easy to pep up for everyone else.
Mac and cheese was one of the first comfort meals I wanted back after my takedown — but the usual version, all milk and onion-heavy sauce, used to leave me sore and windy. This one keeps the creamy, cheesy hug and quietly drops the parts that tend to cause trouble.
The sauce starts with our onion-free, garlic-free stock instead of leaning only on milk, so it's savoury without the wind. I use lactose-free milk and hard cheeses — cheddar and parmesan are naturally very low in lactose. And there's soft grated carrot and courgette melted right into the sauce: the kids never spot it, and it lifts this from a beige dinner into something with a bit more goodness in it.
Ingredients
- Cheese sauce*
- 30 g butter
- 30 g plain flour
- 300 ml lactose-free milk
- 200 ml onion-free stock (or other low-FODMAP stock)
- 130 g tasty cheese, grated
- 30 g parmesan, finely grated
- 1 /4 tsp ground nutmeg
- 1 /4 tsp white pepper
- 1 /4 tsp salt
- Soft veg (melted through)*
- 150 g carrot, peeled and grated
- 150 g courgette, grated
- Pasta*
- 250 g macaroni (white pasta)
- To finish (optional)*
- 2 tbsp chopped parsley
Method
- Bring a large pot of water to the boil and cook the macaroni until just tender. Drain and set aside.
- Meanwhile, melt the butter in a saucepan over a medium heat. Stir in the flour and cook for a minute to make a smooth paste.
- Slowly whisk in the lactose-free milk and onion-free stock, a little at a time, until smooth. Simmer gently, stirring, until it thickens.
- Add the grated carrot and courgette and simmer for 6–8 minutes, until the veg is soft. Soft-cooked veg is much gentler than raw.
- Take the sauce off the heat and stir in the cheddar and parmesan until melted and glossy. Season with the nutmeg, white pepper and salt.
- Fold the drained pasta through the sauce. Serve warm, with parsley on top.
Gentler swaps
Which pasta? Plain white macaroni is the gentlest choice here — it's low in residue, easy on the pouch, and the cheapest. If your gut is settled and you want more fibre, wholemeal pasta works, but it adds roughage that can loosen things and nudges the pouch score up a little. Gluten-free rice or corn pasta is a good swap if you avoid wheat.
Cheese: stick to hard, aged cheeses — cheddar and parmesan are naturally very low in lactose, and a little goes a long way for flavour.
Stock: our onion-free, garlic-free stock does the savoury heavy lifting. A shop-bought low-FODMAP stock is fine too — just check it's free of onion and garlic.
For the family
Cook once — your gentle version, plus how to pep it up for everyone else.
Cook one pot, serve two ways. Spoon out your gentle bowls first. For everyone else, tip the rest into an oven dish, scatter over extra grated tasty cheese and a handful of breadcrumbs, and grill until golden and crunchy. A little mustard, cracked black pepper or sliced spring onion greens stirred through their portion pushes the flavour right up — none of which has to touch yours.
Scores are modelled estimates, not medical advice. Everyone's gut is different, and tolerance changes over time. Reintroduce foods one at a time, and follow your own medical team's advice.